Troubled Teen Warning Signs
What are signs to look for in my child
that indicate trouble ahead?
Look For Signs of Substance Abuse
In addition to the obvious physical signs of substance abuse, another
good way to determine if your child is starting to experiment with drugs
is to look around their room, and check their pockets. Most teens will
rely on their parent not being astute enough to pick up on signs of
substance abuse. A search of your child's room could be an eye opening
experience. One good way to check your teen's pockets is to turn them
inside out before you wash them to check for signs of marijuana or
cigarette leaves. The physical signs of substance abuse are of course
sleeping more than usual, glazed eyes, slurred speech, and the smell of
drugs and alcohol are still good indicators.
Defiance
A child that suddenly begins to exhibit a defiant belligerent attitude
has probably fallen in with a new group of friends. This defiance itself
is not the core issue but a sign of what is really going on. This new
power is something that the child has learned. It could be something they
learned in school or something a friend may be telling them. Defiance
will not only make life miserable at home but will usually lead to
expulsion from school, and eventually legal troubles if left
unchecked.
Change In Appearance
If the apparel of your child should take a dramatic change again, they
probably have a new set of friends. The variation of extreme clothing
changes can range from all black, to chains, and even more provocative
styles of dress. The all black look is usually associated with what is
referred to as the Gothic look. Care should be taken to closely monitor
a child with this new look as innocent as it seems, it is definitely not
a good direction for them to be headed in. Obviously a girl who begins to
dress more provocatively is more than likely sexually active or may be
interested in becoming so. A child who wears all of the same color of
clothing may be investigating becoming associated with a gang. They will
usually deny it but it again is something that should be closely
monitored.
New Music
In most cases a change in life style will be accompanied by a change in
musical preference. It would be wise to jot down the names of the artists
a child is listening to and research them on the internet. Much can be
learned about a child's lifestyle by learning about what and who they are
listening to for entertainment.
Grades Dropping
If your child's grades take a sharp turn for the worse this is usually
one of the first indicators that something is wrong. This change usually
takes place because the child has changed friends, or that their
priorities have changed. Many children develop an "I don't care
attitude". This again may be coming from what they are being told by
their new friends. Over the years we have talked to many parents and it
is our belief that marijuana abuse is a contributor to the "I don't
care attitude."
New Friends
This factor mentioned in almost every change above is worth discussing
on its own. If a child has switched from childhood friends and is
spending more time with friends that you don't know, it would be
beneficial to get to know who your child is spending their time with. We
believe if a child is not bringing his or her new friends home for their
parents to meet, the parent should be concerned. One good way to find out
what is going on with your child would be to ask his or her previous
group of friends how your child is doing? In most cases they will be
wondering the same thing. They will probably be concerned and may even
be able to give you information on what kind of people the new friends
are.
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